*Sex-he wants and she doesn't! fix your relationship now or not

Mans Opinion    = MOVE ON
woman's opinion=talk about it and if he doesn't understand then move on

Easier said then done!! I know

Q-are you both happy or just one of you?

A-if the answer to that was yes, then I think you should move on even if you have kids and you have tried but its not getting any better WHAT after what 4 years?? thats my case......REMAIN friends would be better then spitting mad and hating each other so leave now before they start to  hate you because of the waist of time
When you stay in a unhealthy relationship you will grow to hate things about the other person that you wouldn't have if you had left, like washing your life, and your childs life, you could have done better  could have made it further... Just think about it
Here we are the most important thing is here so listen good!!!!
If you stay with the wrong one you wont be giving the right one a chance with you , so you could be living on the wrong road.
~~~~~~Healthy relationship~~~~~~~~~
Communication is the key as long as each partner feels safe and communication skills





This is a hard situation because you have kids and you want to try everything you can well if you stay and waist 15 years then your kids or you wont have a chance at life
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UPDATE 7-19-13
Q:ok if he treats her nice and polite and better then other woman will she have sex
A:YES she will if she feels comfortable with his actions and attitude
TO FEEL BETTER:
Go walking and look at the nature its beautiful and you look better and most important feel better for you not him!
this is a great one to.  Its fun sexy and time to try

Just take a look at these toys they make all the difference PLEASE just click on each one to take a peak  These are just GREAT for new relationships or died relationships to bring on back

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If you don't have a website let me build you one here!!WOW he would would love these

Instructions

• 1
  Minimize activity with the torn muscle for 72 hours.
• 2
  Start some light activity after 72 hours. It's important not to re-injure the torn or strained area, but if you rest it too long, it can become even weaker and more brittle. Light activity can be a good part of rehabilitation of the muscle, and it encourages blood flow to the area, activating the lymphatic system. This helps to clean toxins and other wastes out of the body, which may have accumulated after an injury.
• 3
  Pay attention to any sharp pain you might feel. If any activity you do makes the area hurt, stop doing it immediately.
• 4
  Use ultrasound, heat therapy and massage to increase blood flow to the injured area. Increasing blood flow to the torn area helps to ensure that the muscle has plenty of oxygen and other nutrients, which will help it to heal. Otherwise, it may get stiff and form a lot of scar tissue, making it weaker and losing flexibility in the area. Increased blood supply helps the muscle to heal faster and to heal better, without too much stiff and brittle scar tissue.
2. 5
   Drink plenty of fluids. Keeping properly hydrated also helps to remove toxins from the body..
   Great~ well you go girl
   Not Good~ ok then try this, 
   OK ladies hows it going?when he gets home tonight try this, get a few candles ready for a candlelight  dinner then after dinner let him soak his feet (no foot bath get a big pan of water), If dinner will take a while set up the foot bath first, don't make to much conversation because most guys seem to not have the patient's right after work for that..
   Good luck ladies
   
   August 20-13
   I'm not happy with myself
   I'm not happy with my life
   I'm not happy with my future or my past
   Now stop and think, did you say I am happy with anything??
   NO you didn't so why?? Because I once heard you make your bed the way you want to now lay in it
   If you don't like your  bed Then change it
   Get counseling
   Talk to friends(real friends)
   Parents if they are supportive
   No one to talk to? then talk to 3 total strangers
   lets talk in 3-5 days ok and see how we feel, and how we are doing, I have my safety group tomorrow I'll talk about it in my Safety Meeting Blog Please look for it if you want some updated tips on how to live better and safer
   
   
   dinner,
   Pretend to be others, make it exciting in the bedroom