Sunday, October 26, 2014

5 year old child is bullied by two 4 year old little girls in school!! Learn to prune mary jane plants

 4 year old emotional sweet little boy, being bullied by 2 little girls 
   smaller then him in his very own first ore-school ever!! 
   A place where he should have and would have been having so much fun to experience his new beginnings but instead parents don't teach there kids to treat others how they want to be treated!!!!!!   
My  baby boy came home every day crying they were beating him up ect!! 


He was having fun and loving school , then started coming home begging me not to make hm go back, to a pace with many kds that he always has loved and always got along with and ALWAYS gave me a problem when it was time to leave, NOT TO stay with kids,
  BULLIES will do that, they will change a childs life forever, and theirs... 

    Telling me things that where happening to him He also mixed up his days to when its happening so when he tells me it happened , I went to the teacher , and he says "he has a wild imagination because the kid wasn't even in school today!! 

   WHAT!!!!   WHY?? What the hell is the truth, why would he make this up??
    because, he is so upset he cant get his days right or because he so young why should he have to get his days right!!!!!!!!!!!!! what the hell am I to do???
I investigate the situation and find that the girls are mean to him but the teachers don't do a thing, they say, JUST USE YOUR WORDS,     OK but after if that didn't work then stop the other child thats being mean, CALL the parents to teach them how to raise their kids better!! Before its to late, after if they Bully the wrong kid they may get hurt or even worse, so these things can go many ways..............
We need to stop this now!!Before more kids die!

 HATE  - HARASSMENT - ABUSE  -PHYSICAL/MENTAL

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I am a mom of a five year old son, the love of my life, this year he is having a separation issues, he cries at night asking me "mom please don't leave me don't go don't leave me at school alone..., I don't know if hes hurting more or am ,
 Damd it! I am so angry at all of us, we have let this happen, we have made this happen

Things we say at home in front of the kids, they are listening to it all!!
 So I need your help and I need it fast!!
to stop the hurt an make our kids  strong fast, it won't happen over night, well it didn't happened over night, it tok months of abuse!!Harassment, bullies

 I went through this the first week of school and it did take more then 2 weeks, he was sick for 3 days last week and there was no school for 2 days so a whole week off with mommy I don't think was to good for him for school, now Im at point A again..... 
  
 I am so destroyed over this I mean my baby hurts being away from me so bad, but why, my god!!.
 BULLYS- mean kids

 We need to watch children CLOSE, they are begging for us to teach them the correct way of life,

Teach them this one important thing in life- How do you want to be treated?  Then treat others the same way, KARMA comes back to you at-least 3 times if not 10!!

The way you treat others- what if someone else did that or said that to your mother, father brother sister, grandma, grandpa, aunt uncle ,ECT you get the drift, a person you care about, how would you feel if a j


So this week I am going to toughing up and say you have to do this you will get a prize after school something special with mom when you get home.. I will do this daily and hope to encourage him to get back to school as he will love to daily again!! 
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Thursday, September 11, 2014

What should I do if my child wants to eat all the time? Share Sandra Bastin food and nutrition specialist If you have a young child, it sure can feel like he's eating all the time — and driving you crazy in the process with his constant refrain of "I'm hungry." What you need to keep in mind is that because of his small stomach, high energy level, and rapid growth rate, your child probably is hungry all the time. Unlike adults, children don't stay full for long, and they really do need to eat every few hours. In addition, your child is probably having growth spurts, which will require his body to take in more calories. So don't worry too much about your little bottomless pit. Children are born with an innate sense of how much they need to eat, and you've got to respect these inborn cues. That doesn't mean that you should give your child free rein in the snack closet, but you should offer your child healthy food whenever he's hungry, while making sure that he also gets plenty of physical activity in his day as well. Here are some suggestions for working with a constant eater: • Encourage healthy choices. When your child asks for a snack ten times a day, don't let him choose chips all the time. Kids need less fat in their diets than when they were babies, so shoot for about 30 percent of total calories. While chips are an okay snack every once in a while, try to steer your child toward more nutritious choices on a regular basis, like fruit, cheese, and whole grains. Even crackers, popcorn, and pretzels are usually less fattening options. • Don't force your child to clean his plate. You may think that if you can get your child to eat all of his macaroni now, he won't bug you in a few hours for a snack. But making kids eat when they don't want to is not a good idea. If children are taught to ignore their "I'm full" cues, that can lead to eating problems down the line, including overeating and obesity. • If your child is using the "I'm hungry" refrain to delay bedtime (a common stalling tactic), offer him a snack one to two hours before bedtime — and then make it clear that the kitchen is closed for the night. In addition, if it seems like your child is using food for psychological reasons, it's probably a cry for attention. Try to spend more time with him individually or make an effort to spend time together as a family. • Think about choking hazards. While grapes are a great healthy food, they can choke a child this age — so cut them in small pieces before serving. Other choking hazards include peanuts, raisins, and raw carrot pieces. In addition, don't let your child run around when he's eating, as this increases his chances of choking. It's admittedly difficult to get a 3-year-old to sit for a full meal, so make it clear to him that if he gets up to run around, you'll take the food away. Eventually he'll learn to sit still when he wants to eat. As long as your child isn't overweight (according to the growth charts at the pediatrician's office) and you're offering him nutritious foods, then your child's constant eating is really not a problem. It just means you have to make more frequent trips to the supermarket.

What should I do if my child wants to eat all the time?

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Sandra Bastin food and nutrition specialist
If you have a young child, it sure can feel like he's eating all the time — and driving you crazy in the process with his constant refrain of "I'm hungry." What you need to keep in mind is that because of his small stomach, high energy level, and rapid growth rate, your child probably is hungry all the time. Unlike adults, children don't stay full for long, and they really do need to eat every few hours. In addition, your child is probably having growth spurts, which will require his body to take in more calories.

So don't worry too much about your little bottomless pit. Children are born with an innate sense of how much they need to eat, and you've got to respect these inborn cues. That doesn't mean that you should give your child free rein in the snack closet, but you should offer your child healthy food whenever he's hungry, while making sure that he also gets plenty of physical activity in his day as well.

Here are some suggestions for working with a constant eater:

• Encourage healthy choices. When your child asks for a snack ten times a day, don't let him choose chips all the time. Kids need less fat in their diets than when they were babies, so shoot for about 30 percent of total calories. While chips are an okay snack every once in a while, try to steer your child toward more nutritious choices on a regular basis, like fruit, cheese, and whole grains. Even crackers, popcorn, and pretzels are usually less fattening options.

• Don't force your child to clean his plate. You may think that if you can get your child to eat all of his macaroni now, he won't bug you in a few hours for a snack. But making kids eat when they don't want to is not a good idea. If children are taught to ignore their "I'm full" cues, that can lead to eating problems down the line, including overeating and obesity.

• If your child is using the "I'm hungry" refrain to delay bedtime (a common stalling tactic), offer him a snack one to two hours before bedtime — and then make it clear that the kitchen is closed for the night. In addition, if it seems like your child is using food for psychological reasons, it's probably a cry for attention. Try to spend more time with him individually or make an effort to spend time together as a family.

• Think about choking hazards. While grapes are a great healthy food, they can choke a child this age — so cut them in small pieces before serving. Other choking hazards include peanuts, raisins, and raw carrot pieces. In addition, don't let your child run around when he's eating, as this increases his chances of choking. It's admittedly difficult to get a 3-year-old to sit for a full meal, so make it clear to him that if he gets up to run around, you'll take the food away. Eventually he'll learn to sit still when he wants to eat.

As long as your child isn't overweight (according to the growth charts at the pediatrician's office) and you're offering him nutritious foods, then your child's constant eating is really not a problem. It just means you have to make more frequent trips to the supermarket.


Thursday, August 21, 2014

Mindfulness - Depression - Anxiety - P.T.S.D- things that may help through your journey and mine

square stop count to 4 while taking a deep breath
count to 4 while exhaling
and repeat 4 times, It really will work, you have to think about doing it though,
  sometimes crying is the only way, BUT only for so long, 
when my car was stolen by an A-Hole_ mechanic, i cried for weeks couldn't believe it happens! So I got a counselor because i was shutting down ,My counsler knows me and she knows how much i love my son, well i acually live for HIM,  and I was afraid of hurting someone close to me like my son, I know in my heart id never do that BUT, i needed help and I listen to all the people out there that hurt there kids and wonder in they are mental or just assholes that dont deserve to live,!!, I also want to be the strongest mom I can be, and right now im starting to get my grounds back a little i go to counseling every week 3 times a week and try to hit a meeting like AA meetings or addiction meetings, because they are open for everyone and everyone has problems and we talk together trying to help each other, ITS HELPED ME SOOOO MUCH!!!

Right now I live for my son but someday I hope to live for me too, and with counseling and groups, its bound to click in right??
  

Please keep chatting and checking in here, lifes to short to live like this so if you have any imput please share it here, and ill be back within 2 days, see you then

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Mindfulness is here and now, don't think of the stresses of then or what could happened, think about right this second

Sunday, August 17, 2014

HELP FAMILYS GET TRANSPORTATION AND SNOW PLOWING IN THE WINTER

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Transportation for disabled familys


Transportation and snow plowing for disabled and less fortunate folks, Nonprofit Family Hope

Short Summary


  • I am Maria, I am a disabled single mom taking care of my son my mom and myself, Been through a lot since my injury,
  • I have worked since 6 years old, rapped by age 7 repeatedly, I have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Depression, Anxiety, Fibromyalgia, Bulging disc, Degenerative disc disorder,ECT... 
  •  I am ready to fight and help others carry on as I have and what doesn't kill us, does make us stronger!!
  • I am taking this as an opportunity as This has pushed me over the edge to a few nervous break downs, only to encourage me to help others in our very same situation.
  • This will not just help my family but thousands of other family's that have been fighting so hard to just live through another day without giving up..
  • I plan on taking this as far as I can , and build an empire for every state out there...
  • Maine is so very cold and expensive for a plow, we could never afford the greedy

What We Need

Break it down for you in more detail:
  • First I will take $6,000 and buy a gas efficient vehicle to transport folks to where they need to go 
  • 2nd of all I will take the other 6,000 to buy an efficient plow to plow folks out to get them safely out and in there yards, I know this sate is horrible if you have no transportation and plowing ability,
  • A plow job is a minimum of $35, I will donate my time and get volunteers to help us so people can have their yards done..
  • A taxi is a minimum of $9, whether its 2-3 miles, We will work together to get people where they need to go..
  • You will change so many lives, People are committing suicide because of simple stuff like this , no transportation, cant get out of there yards, they just give up, Its so hard to live like this, so you will actually save lives!!
  • If we don't reach our full goal, we can still buy transportation and start slow, and work our selves up to a plow vehicle, I do know how to barter so even if i didn't get what I need here I can work with it, and get us folks on the road to living a better and safer life
  • I drove a very unsafe car for 2 years here and there, It was so unsafe I couldnt drive my little boy in it, Thank god I  didnt because it broke in half while driving around a corner, No one should have to live like we have in the last 5 years..

The Impact

Feel free to explain more about your campaign and let people know how the difference their contribution will make:
  • This will someday change the world and make it a safer place
  • I did start 2 businesses, It was heavy work and I couldn't afford to hire help, I had to gve it up , This is different, I wont have to life anything, just drive and help people and I will have volunteers, I already have 3 people ready and waiting for me to get wheels to transport people, and we plan on taking shifts..
  • What if you or your family didn't have transportation or was stuck in there yards while a blizzard was roaring outside, If I had my Non profit Family Hope for transportation and snow removal going, wouldn't you love if I could come and clean out the yards of your loved ones , Or get then to the hospital, or to work or to the store, Wouldn't you be thankful of Theses services for your loved ones, I know i will be..

Risks & Challenges

There is no risk involved here, its all win win, everyone needs transportation, Everyone needs to be able to get out of there yards in the below 0 winters... This will help so many people,
  • My plan is to make a scheduled and get everyone's appointment dates and work with the community, with all transportation issues and in the winter same thing, work with the community

Other Ways You Can Help

Some people just can't contribute, but that doesn't mean they can't help:
  • You can help by getting  the word out and make some noise about my campaign.
  • use the Indiegogo share tools!
  • Facebook,twitter,myspace
And that's all there is to it.

Lets get this show on the roa and make the world a beter, safer place

Love - Laugh - Live  a better Tomorrow

Thank you for all your time and help, we are stronger together!!
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Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Deer Farting-Very funny Deer Farting- Funniest Videos- youtube-funniest videos


  TRUE VIDEO!!!




Son surprises mom and Buys Mom a car - Help me suprise my mom with new home


Wow, What a great story~!~!

 Everyone needs to help one another, nothing like not having transportation

So I have started a fund to help Everyone!!





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Please help here!!

Selena-what a truly sad movie!! and true story ignurant jelouse folks right

SelenaThe tragic shooting death of Tejano singer Selena spawned a reaction within the Latino community that can be compared to the reactions to the deaths of Elvis Presley and John Lennon. An enormously popular singer in Latino communities across North America, her music crossed cultural boundaries to touch the lives of young and old alike. A flamboyant, sexy stage performer, sometimes hailed as the Latina Madonna, Selena was nonetheless considered a role model for off-stage she was family oriented, active in anti-drug campaigns and AIDS awareness programs.

She was born Selena Quintanilla to Mexican-American parents in Lake Jackson, TX. Before her birth, her father Abraham had been a member of Los Dinos. When Selena began performing at the age of ten, her father became her manager and Los Dinos became her backing band. In 1983, she made her recording debut in 1983 after appearing on popular the radio show of L.A. deejay Johnnie Canales. While Selena grew up understanding Spanish, English was her first language. Her first records were recorded in Spanish and she sang the words phonetically. After her music began to catch on, she began learning Spanish formally and by the time of her death, she was fluent in the language.

In 1987, she was named Female Vocalist of the Year and Performer of the Year at the Tejano Music Awards. Two years later she signed with EMI Latin and in 1990, she and Los Dinos released their eponymous debut album. Later that year she released a singles compilation, Personal Best, and she also released Ven Conmigo. In 1991 the title track of the latter became the first Tejano record to go gold. Selena also released two more albums, including one of Cumbia music, Baila Esta Cumbia that year. Selena married Los Dinos' lead guitarist Chris Perez in April of 1992. Other group members included her brother, Abraham Quintanilla, III, who played bass and penned many of her songs, and her sister Suzette, the drummer. She won her first Grammy in 1993 for Best Mexican American Performance for her album Selena Live. That same year, she released an album of love songs, Quiero, and she also opened Selena Etc, a clothing manufacturing business. In 1994, she made her feature-film debut in Don Juan DeMarco, in which she played a singer. Later that year, she and her band embarked upon a tour of New York, LA, Argentina, and Puerto Rico. Amor Prohibido was released in 1994; the record's title track won a Grammy and went gold. In 1995, Selena began preparing to make her breakthrough into the American pop mainstream.

In the spring of that year she was working on her first English-language album, when she went to a motel room in Corpus Christi, TX, to fire 34-year-old Yolanda Saldivar, the woman who managed Selena's boutique in San Antonio, and the founder of the Selena fan club. A few days before the confrontation Selena's father had unearthed paperwork proving that Saldivar had been embezzling from the fan club. Saldivar and Selena argued and as the singer left, she was shot in the back. Selena didn't die right away and managed to stagger into the lobby where she named Saldivar as the killer. An hour later, Selena died in a local hospital.

It was a death that rocked the entire Latino music industry. Saldivar was convicted for the murder of Selena in November, 1995 and sentenced to at least 30 years in prison.

A special service was held in the Los Angeles Colliseum where she was to give a concert. Less than a month later, Texas governor George W. Bush declared April 16, "Selena Day," in her honor. Dreaming of You, her final album, was released posthumously in the early summer. It became the first Tejano album to reach number one in America and was double platinum by the end of the year.


How sad this world is, Lets make new memories without the HATE!!

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Tobbaco killing kids just touching it- children getting sick around tobacco

 


WASHINGTON — Kids working on tobacco farms are exposed to nicotine residue and dangerous pesticides that are making them sick, Human Rights Watch reported Wednesday.
The group called on President Barack Obama to issue an executive order or take other action barring hazardous child labor on American farms. Congress should enact legislation prohibiting children younger than 18 from dangerous farm work and the Department of Labor should resurrect rules it shelved that would have deemed contact with tobacco plants among jobs particularly harmful to children, Human Rights Watch said.
"There is significantly less protection for children on farms" than in other industries, said Margaret Wurth, one of the authors of the report Tobacco's Hidden Children.
Human Rights Watch interviewed 141 tobacco workers ages 7 to 17 who worked on farms in 2012 or 2013 in Kentucky, North Carolina, Tennessee and Virginia.
Those young workers frequently worked 50 to 60 hours a week in hot and damp conditions, using dangerous tools and machines, and risking falls from tobacco barns, the report said. But three-quarters of the children also were exposed to so much nicotine from handling tobacco leaves that they experienced serious illnesses, such as breathing problems, nausea, skin rashes, headaches and irritations in their eyes and mouths.
JUNE 2012: Tougher labor rules to protect children on farms fail
JANUARY 2012: Proposed federal rules would limit kids' work on farms
And some young workers also reported being exposed to pesticides sprayed on or near them, the report said.
"Some people got really sick," Erick Garcia, 17, said at a National Press Club news conference Wednesday. He began working in North Carolina tobacco fields at 11 years old. "The owner didn't care about it."

Celia, who did not give her last name, said she started harvesting tobacco in North Carolina at age 12. She wore garbage bags around her legs and plastic grocery bags on her feet to try to limit her exposure to tobacco residue, but it did not work well. She recalled an incident after a morning of handling tobacco in which "I started feeling sick."
"I was dizzy. I felt like the world was spinning around my head," she said. "I was going to puke." But her complaints were never heeded because "whatever I said wasn't worth anything because I was a child."
The report reveals abuses that largely have gone under the radar of health and safety regulators, said Jane Buchanan, co-author of the report and associate director of Human Rights Watch Children's Rights Division.
"This has not really come to light before," she said. "We believe there are thousands of child tobacco workers here in the United States."
Sen. Tom Harkin, D-Iowa, a member of the Senate's Agriculture, Nutrition and Forestry Committee, is concerned about the issue.
"We have a moral obligation to protect vulnerable workers, especially children," he said in a statement. "To think that we have children in America who are suffering acute nicotine poisoning because they are working in the tobacco fields of the U.S. is truly appalling."
Matthew Myers, president of the Campaign for Tobacco-Free Kids, considers the revelations of the Human Rights Watch report another way the tobacco industry exploits children.

"This report demonstrates that the tobacco industry cannot be trusted to police itself, and it is time for strong, well-enforced laws and regulations that prohibit the use of child labor on tobacco farms," Myers said in a statement.
The report singled out one tobacco company for praise. Philip Morris International (PM) has developed a child labor policy it already is carrying out. The company opposes work for children younger than 15 or the minimum age set by a nation's laws, whichever is higher. And the firm said it does not allow children younger than 18 to engage in hazardous work.
"Child labor in agriculture in the U.S. is a serious issue and it's not just in tobacco," said Miguel Coleta, director of external labor policies at Philip Morris. "Human Rights Watch's prior research shows that."
His company already has severed contracts with 20 American farms that would not agree to its child-labor policies, Coleta said.
The company intends to monitor compliance with its child labor restrictions on all American farms by next year, Coleta said.
"We're not trying to hide here," he said. "We want better visibility about what is going on on the farms."
The Labor Department in 2012 withdrew regulations that would have limited the use of children in agriculture after an outcry from the industry. Part of the regulations would have barred children younger than 16 from being involved in tobacco harvesting. At the time, the agency said the Obama administration respected "the rural way of life, especially the role that parents and other family members play in passing those traditions down through the generations."
Asked about Human Rights Watch's call to reissue the regulations, Labor Department officials released a statement saying the group's report "calls attention to a very serious issue — certain work activities and environments that threaten the health, safety and welfare of children."
"Engaging with workers, employers, and others is key to achieving our mission," the department said. "And we look forward to speaking with the report's authors about their findings and how we can continue to work together to ensure that young workers in agriculture are only employed and working within the rules."